If youโre thinking about moving to Mexico or are already living in Mexico, youโre in for a treat.
One of the things Iโve loved most about this country and its differences to the United States or North of The Border is discovering the unique habits and customs that make Mexico so special.
After helping many others relocate here, Iโve come to appreciate these small cultural differences that make daily life interesting and fun. Let me take you through some of the things that might catch your attention when you first arrive!
Hand Gestures: Communicating Without Words
Mexicans are incredibly expressive, and they use hand gestures in ways that might surprise you.
One gesture that youโll see a lot means โYes.โ
Itโs really handy when youโre eating and canโt talk or don’t want to interrupt the speakerโjust a quick gesture of the finger folding and unfolding, and the person youโre with understands perfectly! Itโs something you’ll probably adopt because itโs just so practical.
Another gesture is to say thank you, especially when someone lets you cross the street or helps you from a distance. Most new expats find this confusing at first because, in the U.S., we tend to rely more on verbal thanks or a wave. But a simple hand mid in the air does the trick here, and people appreciate it just as much.
And letโs not forget the hand movements for โcome here.โ For many newcomers, it may seem as though you’re being shooed away when it’s actually the opposite!
The dozens of hand gestures in Mexico are fun and a big part of the lively social culture here.
Chili and Lime: A Mexican Culinary Staple
Youโll quickly notice that we Mexicans love to put chili and lime on almost everything. Whether itโs fruit, snacks, or even candy, chili and lime bring an extra burst of flavor thatโs hard to resist.
For example, youโll see mango slices sprinkled with chili powder and a squeeze of limeโit might sound unusual at first, but trust me, itโs delicious! We even put lime on our beans, meats, mayo, and pretty much everything in between.
One of the things I always tell people who are thinking of moving to Mexico is to embrace these new flavor combinations. What might seem odd at first will soon become something you canโt live without.
Makeup on the Go: A Street-Side Beauty Routine
One of the things that surprises a lot of newcomers when they first move here is seeing women putting on makeup in the most unexpected places. Whether itโs on the street or even in the car, youโll see women using spoons to curl their eyelashes while on the move! Itโs a fun little quirk of life in Mexico that you get used to pretty quickly.
Back in the U.S., we tend to do our makeup at home, in private.
But here, itโs not uncommon to see someone applying lipstick or mascara while sitting in traffic or waiting for the bus. Itโs just one of those things that adds to the charm of everyday life in Mexicoโeveryoneโs busy, but they still make time to look fabulous!
The Sounds of the Street: Embrace the Noise
If youโre moving to a city like Mexico City, one of the first things that will hit you is the sound.
The streets are alive with noiseโcars honking, vendors calling out what theyโre selling, and even trucks driving around announcing that theyโll buy your old appliances or mattresses. Youโll hear the tamales vendor early in the morning, and by the afternoon, the sweet potato vendorโs whistle echoes through the streets.
At first, it can feel a little overwhelming, especially if youโre coming from a quieter area. But once you get used to it, those sounds become part of the rhythm of life here.
Now, when I hear those familiar street sounds, it feels like home. Maybe one day you will also associate these noises with home.
Swear Words and Expressions: A Colorful Language
Mexican Spanish is full of colorful expressions, and youโll notice that people here are pretty casual about using certain words that might sound a little strong at first. But donโt worry! In most cases, these words arenโt meant to offendโtheyโre just part of everyday conversation and are often used for emphasis or fun.
Phrases like โNo manchesโ or โรraleโ are incredibly versatile.
Youโll hear them in all sorts of situations, and before long, youโll find yourself using them too. One of my personal favorites is โAhorita,โ which literally means โright now,โ but can mean anything from โin a few minutesโ to โlater,โ or even โnever.โ
Itโs part of the laid-back, easygoing attitude that makes Mexico such a welcoming place to live.
The Jello Obsession: More Than Just Dessert
Jello is a big deal in Mexico, and itโs something youโll see at almost every party, celebration, or family gathering. Whether itโs a birthday party or a holiday event, jello is sure to make an appearance. Youโll even find it in hospitals, where itโs considered a comforting and easy-to-digest treat.
You probably are thinking, “jello? Really?”
And yes, jello is such a popular dessert and can be one of those things you associate with special occasions or everyday life. Go to any bakery, and they most likely have a jello section. And if you ever have a stomach ache? Yep, jello is the go-to remedy!
Breakfast: Starting the Day with a Feast
Breakfast in Mexico is a completely different experience than what you may be used to in the U.S. While we might have something light like toast or cereal, breakfast here is a full-on feast. Youโll find people enjoying tacos, chilaquiles, or even barbacoa for breakfastโitโs hearty, filling, and absolutely delicious.
Another thing I love about Mexican breakfasts is the tradition of saying โBuen provechoโ (similar to โBon appรฉtitโ) to the people around you when youโre leaving a restaurant. Even if you donโt know them, itโs a kind and respectful gesture that adds to the warmth of the culture.
Mexican Men: Chivalry is Alive and Well
One thing that really stands out to a lot of women when they first arrive in Mexico is how attentive and thoughtful Mexican men are. Whether itโs making sure youโre walking on the side of the sidewalk farthest from the road or helping you carry something heavy, thereโs a strong sense of care and chivalry thatโs deeply ingrained in the culture here.
Itโs also common to see couples of all ages holding hands and showing affection in public, which is something I didnโt see as much in the U.S. Itโs a beautiful reminder of the deep connections and sense of romance that are very much alive here.
I hope this gave you a little insight into some of the everyday customs and habits that make Mexico so unique. Moving to a new country is always an adventure, and these small quirks make life in Mexico so interesting and enjoyable.
If youโve noticed anything else that stands out to you, feel free to share your experiences in the comments belowโIโd love to hear from you!